When an Apology Needs Patient Follow-Through
You have said you are sorry. Now the ordinary choices that follow deserve attention too: listening, keeping an agreement, and changing the behavior that caused hurt.
I will pay back four times the amount.
(Luke 19:8, NIV, excerpt)
Jesus welcomes Zacchaeus, who responds with a commitment to generosity and repayment where he has cheated others. Jesus announces salvation and speaks of His mission to seek and save the lost. The encounter places practical change within the saving grace of Christ.
Choose a clear action and follow through patiently
Ask what responsibility belongs to you and what can appropriately be put right. Be specific about the behavior you intend to change and the help you may need to do that.
Listen to the other person’s response without asking them to move at your pace. Give trust time, and respect the boundaries needed for care and safety.
Keep the next agreement. If you need support to change a repeated pattern, seek it from an appropriate, trustworthy person who can help you remain accountable.
Bring the whole process before Jesus. His grace calls us into a changed life, where confession is accompanied by a willingness to act differently. A sincere apology deserves the patient care of daily choices that match it.
A prayer
Jesus, forgive what is wrong in my conduct and help me change. Give me humility to listen, courage to make appropriate repair, and patience with the effects of my actions. Let Your grace shape the care I practice next. Amen.
Keep reading: Letting Children See You Ask Forgiveness · Making a Mistake at Work and Taking Responsibility.
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